Nice guys and Porn sites

Before reading this post please do keep an open mind. I wont give a damn either way but still ! ๐Ÿ˜€ will be good for you.

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First, let us get into the term nice guy. Who is a ‘nice guy’? Nice guy is a misnomer for a pathetic loser who cannot express himself as he is. He hides his flaws and imperfections, avoids conflicts/confrontations, makes his partner the emotional center of his life, he will say what you want to hear he doesn’t care about the truth, his feelings or someone else’s feelings for that matter.

But Ayush this guy sounds like a pathetic loser, why are you calling him a nice guy huh? Exactly my lovely readers this guy is a pathetic loser but not for the opposite sex. For females he is a ‘Nice guy’ coz he is available 24*7 his insecurities wont allow him to detach from any instant messaging service. If he doesn’t reply within the next 2 seconds of reading a text his social validation hits rock bottom. Societal approval is everything for him. Coz if people and especially girls dont like him. It is the end of life for him.

Did i mention that nice guys never abuse. Oh yes they dont! These muddafackas angels of heaven won’t even use shit in a conversation without two asterisks. They also do not watch porn or do anything bad by societal standards. They can post mobile numbers on porn sites but they wont watch porn. Such respect for women makes me really want to worship their niceness with a stick and a shoe.

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Just some ‘Nice Guy’ things ๐Ÿ™‚ย 

Reality for them is a fuk fest of desperation, societal validation, pretentious politeness and constant rejection.

Talk about keeping people in comfort zones. Girls love them but ‘as friends’. They wanna share everything with them but it so happens and it always happens that the nice guy ultimately develops feelings for his bestie. The Nice guy in fact had feelings for her since the very beginning but he was too wimpy to express them so what he does is he makes strategies to win over the girl with his ‘Niceness’. Perpetual interactions with the opposite gender also inculcates in him feminine qualities (negative ones) such as back bitching and crying over things which dont matter shit. I have seen them getting ‘hurt’ oh mann !!!! Such cringe … wtf?

But once he understands that his ‘Niceness’ ain’t working. This complexed individual may even resort to derogatory means like defaming the girl or engage in criminal activities such as stalking, messaging or even posting names and mobile numbers on porn sites. This is in fact a common occurrence now and we hear this happening daily in newspapers.

Women are emotional by nature even when they take life decisions related to relationships or friendships, they weigh them on an emotional scale rather than a logical one. On top of this Indian women suffer from immaturity and unawareness. In a society of arrange marriages this has to be expected. Family dignity is everything and as a result such crimes are not reported which leads to the women suffering alone. Immaturity in tackling pretentious personalities that is seeing through the intentions behind such niceness leads to months of mental agony and harassment.

The niceness of these nice guys leads to destroyed relationships, mental torture and emotional scars for life. This is a criminal offence and must not be treated any differently than any other crime against women.

Moreover, females here in India are confused af.ย  They notice red flags in all the wrong places and when it comes to a real threat they go and embrace it with open arms. ๐Ÿ™‚ . The inherent niceness in these nice guys works as a babe magnet and they just cannot control themselves from sharing everything with them. Nice guys know all the tricks of emotional manipulation. They have been into many ‘friendships’ with the fairer sex therefore they understand the emotional triggers which leads to deeper but platonic friendships. Comprising of playing the victim card and generating empathy in the other person. Some may even go to the extent of threatening to kill themselves if a girl doesn’t talk to them or their needs remain unfulfilled.

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Facing constant rejection also mentally damages these nice guys. In effect it leads to the emergence of psychotic behavior. Which in turn leads to criminal offences.

Of course one should take action against them. Cyber crime can be reported with a mail to a cyber cell. Source of any derogatory comment/ defamation can be traced by tracing the ip address which is really not a big deal and the whole process takes just days(as given on the cyber cell site) . Anonymity too is guaranteed for the victim.

Having covered the issue of nice guys in detail. Let us talk about the other side of masculinity.

An Integrated Maleย 

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The opposite of a nice guy is an integrated Male. The foremost quality of an integrated Male is that he is direct. No beating around the bush. Just calling a spade a spade. This direct nature stems from honesty and integrity.

Embracing the flaws as they are, working on them and improving each day instead of hiding them. Working on skills rather than investing time in useless relationships or friendships. Human nature is such that we crave companionship, but if one’s confused emotions due to lack of communication/interest hinder one’s emotional, mental and physical health. That relationship must be ridden off as soon as possible. It takes guts and a whole lot of will power, strength and bravery to express oneself as they are. Its no joke to lead a life of truth, honesty and kindness when the world around you is cruel and stupid af.

 

P.S. -: I am a sigma male though if you are wondering what kind of a male i am. I researched a lot on this and resonated with sigma male characteristics ๐Ÿ˜€ .

 

 

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